Hard to Miss

Barbie wants all of you Dolls and Ken's to repeat this and remember it: You can't miss someone who doesn't miss you back. You miss the memory of what you perceive them to be until it changes & because you can't control it that hurts you. 

No matter how much this doll misses her favorite guys & dolls she realizes... You must distance yourself when someone is hurting you by using you to hurt someone else. Even if it's innocent or  unintentional. No matter how much I care this doll will get out of being hurt, used and manipulated to harm the guys or gals I know. And my friends should already know I won't be used to hurt other people.

I tried to pacify this topic nicely repeatedly by personalizing: Decluttering, clinging to love, disposable man, etc. Look, I like my freedom & miss having a personal life. Ladies & Fellows, your insecure issues impede this. And it's not cool to leave people dealing with your BS and hide. It should've been put a stop to already instead of encroaching further into this dolls life. Honestly I never should've been put in this position and I'm just trying to avoid being awful while avoiding guys/girls talking "intimately" about people I know. I don't tolerate that. I feel sad for the people involved because it's no one's business. 

No judgment. This doll is simply tired of being nice & agreeable in situations that end up awkward later.

Ladies & Fellows, this is definitely overstepping here for us all. No one is being a dick or a bitch or a bad person. Just Ask yourself why you really want my friendship. In order to overshare? Why? I have no sway on anyone's dating status but my own. I won't be used by anyone for vengeance to get even with another. I'm so sorry you're hurting. Breakups & love situations are hard for me too! 

Here's a story about being wronged... 

Have you ever been used by people?

Enjoy!

Kisses, m.

She Done Him Wrong

(6-5-11)

“She Done Him Wrong…”

“Really?”

“She did.”

“Such a nice young man. It’s a shame.”

“What’s she done?”

“She did the worst thing,”

“What was that?”

“I take it you don’t know the story?”

“No. Do you?” 

“I’m not one to gossip but let me tell you what happened… that poor child had those stars in his eyes. You know the ones. The love struck kind. All very silly for this little girl around the bend. Pretty child she was. I can’t imagine another brighter than she was. They were inseparable for a while. It seemed to be a bit of destiny involved. People around these parts sure enough thought it was a fine match. Until…”

“Until? What happened?”

“Ramona, let me catch my breath. Then I’ll tell you.”

“Alright. When you’re ready.”

“Thank you. I’m feeling a little better. It wasn’t cause that fellow had no money. If you want to believe she did it cause of the money, you’d be wrong. Was it because of his looks? On the tongue of most gossip’s they’ll say that was the reason. But I’ll tell you different. That child. She did him wrong because she knew that she could. There wasn’t any reason involved except pure malice. Now the reason she did it, ain’t half as important as what she did.”

“What’d she do?”

“Ramona! Don’t rush me!. Some folks want to taste what’s out there before settling down. That’s right as they see fit. But this one, she didn’t much care for the flavor of one. She needed to taste much more. The very idea of sharing a woman with another man, let alone every man in town was too much for that fellow to find out.  She sure done him wrong… and he’ll never be the same for it.”