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Change your style again...
Change your taste in men...


Needless to say there are many types of men out in this world. There are more types than I can even begin to list... And they're not all liars, cheaters, and thieves either. But that's me putting the cart before the horse. Isn't it?

A man is hardly like a handbag. Yet women sometimes have the tendency to change their men like they are last season's worn out Louboutins or Gucci Bag that couldn't be lived without at that moment. It's not that these women don't appreciate what's in front of them, it's simply that they have settled on a fix to fulfill a need instead of looking for something sustainable. When a woman changes shoes and rotates bags it's out of amusement. A small way to fill the boredom or ennui of the wardrobe. That old "something" is a whole new ensemble with a switch of accessories. Rarely will a woman toss it all aside without thinking twice. Or eleven times...

Occasionally a man can let you down, just like those fabulous Vintage strappy sandals you bought with the divine gold buckle, a man can break your heart when he simply wears out. A snap of the buckle and WOW are you disappointed that you have to get another pair especially after all the time you invested breaking them in. The simple truth is... they never stopped being your favorite until they let you down. And sometimes that happens. Although once and again you think you've found a bargain, and it's something amazing that looks like Chanel but wears quite thin quickly. Regardless on how much you think it looks and sounds great, if it continually isn't working you have to change your style. You can continue to repeat the cycle of relying on something that keeps letting you down or you can invest in something that will be sustainable.

The reality is that a man on the arm should truly resemble that Little Black Dress resting in the front of the closet. Typically every woman should have a basic Little Black dress in her wardrobe. Now your style can vary from extravagant material girl chic to bohemian earth goddess to utilitarian retro fab ala Dietrich but the one thing you can always count on is a Little Black Dress. A good man is no different than that Little Black Dress, he is your go-to guy every time. And my suggestion to anyone who has found that "fit" that may not be perfect but it always works, keep it around. Perhaps what is fashionable isn't always appropriate for everyone? Sometimes in order to make a firm choice you have to stand for something instead of moving on to something else. 

kisses. m.